What I love about being a keyholder
So why do I love chastity? I decided to share some thoughts on why I love being a keyholder. Chastity is such an intense and… Read More »What I love about being a keyholder
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Are you meant to be in an FLR?
There are infinite ways to have a romantic relationship with someone. One way is to have a female led relationship, where the woman is by… Read More »Are you meant to be in an FLR?
Do dominants need to have empathy for their sub’s experience?
Empathy is a very popular idea right now, in popular culture and in the BDSM scene. Do dominants truly need empathy, or is just a… Read More »Do dominants need to have empathy for their sub’s experience?
New to kink? Advice for older kinksters
If you are an older kinkster who wants to enter the world of BDSM, there is no better time than now! This is an enticing… Read More »New to kink? Advice for older kinksters
Service Submission: 37 ways to be a wonderful service sub
Service submission is one of the most common forms of D/s dynamic, and one that many Dommes love. This includes me, I love service submission!… Read More »Service Submission: 37 ways to be a wonderful service sub
How to tell your boyfriend you want to dominate him
If you have fantasies about dominating your boyfriend, you don’t have to keep it a secret. Tell your boyfriend you want to dominate him. Do… Read More »How to tell your boyfriend you want to dominate him
Why I’ve never been monogamous
Monogamy is like a big, established superhighway; everyone is driving on it because it’s fast, predictable and available. There are other paths (non-monogamy), but many… Read More »Why I’ve never been monogamous
Does the sub actually have the power in D/s?
“The submissive can use the safeword so the submissive actually has all the power.” I’ve seen this idea floating around in movies and TV, or… Read More »Does the sub actually have the power in D/s?
Karezza: the amazing practice of sex without male orgasm!
Ancient philosopher Laozi said this about female orgasms: “the Spirit of the Valley is inexhaustible… Draw on it as you will, it never runs dry.”… Read More »Karezza: the amazing practice of sex without male orgasm!
Cuckolding without a bull: 13 ways to cuck him!
Cuckolding is usually a special dynamic between three people (hotwife, bull and cuckold). But you can also have a cuckolding dynamic without a bull. Cuckolding… Read More »Cuckolding without a bull: 13 ways to cuck him!