New to kink? Advice for older kinksters
If you are an older kinkster who wants to enter the world of BDSM, there is no better time than now! This is an enticing… Read More »New to kink? Advice for older kinksters
D/s Lifestyle
Service Submission: 37 ways to be a wonderful service sub
Service submission is one of the most common forms of D/s dynamic, and one that many Dommes love. This includes me, I love service submission!… Read More »Service Submission: 37 ways to be a wonderful service sub
Why I’ve never been monogamous
Monogamy is like a big, established superhighway; everyone is driving on it because it’s fast, predictable and available. There are other paths (non-monogamy), but many… Read More »Why I’ve never been monogamous
Does the sub actually have the power in D/s?
“The submissive can use the safeword so the submissive actually has all the power.” I’ve seen this idea floating around in movies and TV, or… Read More »Does the sub actually have the power in D/s?
Visiting a sex worker can transform your life
Visiting a sex worker isn’t limited to just paying for sex, it’s about sexual wellness, exploration and human connection. It’s about pursuing your most human… Read More »Visiting a sex worker can transform your life
Do you always need a safeword?
Imagine, your Domme is spanking you hard. It feels great, so great, until your butt starts to burn painfully. You want the spanking to end,… Read More »Do you always need a safeword?
How to do long distance humiliation
Humiliation is so much fun. Just because you’re long distance doesn’t mean you can’t enjoy it. There are lots of ways to do long distance… Read More »How to do long distance humiliation
How to do edgeplay (why danger makes you horny)
What do you get when you combine danger and fear with sexual excitement and erotic thrill? You get edgeplay! Not everyone can understand how danger… Read More »How to do edgeplay (why danger makes you horny)
For the love of kink, don’t call a vagina a “down there”
I am forever stunned at how often people refer to pussies as “down there”. It’s a body part, it’s not a geographical region. It’s like… Read More »For the love of kink, don’t call a vagina a “down there”
Is experience important in being a good Domme or sub?
Is experience an important factor for being a good Domme? Is it important for being a good sub? My short answer is no, because I… Read More »Is experience important in being a good Domme or sub?