D/s Lifestyle

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Is experience important in being a good Domme or sub?

by Victoria
November 4, 2022January 4, 2023

Is experience an important factor for being a good Domme? Is it important for being a good sub? My short answer is no, because I… Read More »Is experience important in being a good Domme or sub?

A Small Penis is Not a Clitoris. Don’t call it a clit.

by Victoria
October 11, 2019January 4, 2023

A small penis is not a clitoris. It’s not a clitty, or a clit, it’s not even close to being a clitoris. A clitoris is… Read More »A Small Penis is Not a Clitoris. Don’t call it a clit.

What Makes A Good Submissive

by Victoria
September 30, 2019November 2, 2022

What makes a good submissive? This is a tricky question, since every Domme will have her own idea of an ideal sub. In this blog… Read More »What Makes A Good Submissive

Four Types of Domination in D/s dynamics

by Victoria
February 20, 2019November 2, 2022

Domination is like a delicious dessert that comes in many flavors. A Domme can seek control of your mind, body and soul. Knowing the different… Read More »Four Types of Domination in D/s dynamics

43 Household Items that Can be Made Kinky

by Victoria
February 18, 2019November 2, 2022

Many household items can be made kinky with a little creativity. Sometimes I find myself away from my kinky devices with a sub who needs… Read More »43 Household Items that Can be Made Kinky

Do you need a contract in a D/s dynamic?

by Victoria
February 5, 2019November 2, 2022

D/s contracts: are they the step that takes your D/s relationship to a deeper level? Or are they extra paper-work? Is a contract necessary to… Read More »Do you need a contract in a D/s dynamic?