Cuckolding is usually a special dynamic between three people (hotwife, bull and cuckold). But you can also have a cuckolding dynamic without a bull. Cuckolding is usually a scenario where a woman (the hotwife or cuckoldress) has erotic or sexual enjoyment with an attractive man (the bull) instead of her partner (the cuckold). The cuckold knows he’s been out-competed by a sexier man, and this excites him!
You can enjoy cuckolding without a bull
The good news is: you can have a cuckolding dynamic even if you do not have a bull. All you have to do is bring out feelings of competition and humiliation for the cuck, and power and sexual freedom for the hotwife even if you don’t have a bull. You don’t have to have sex with a bull to have a cuckolding dynamic. Cuck your man with your words, actions and your fantasies!
Cuckolding him is all about playing with his mind, stirring up cuckold feelings in him while you enjoy sexual freedom. The cuckold enjoys a combination of competition, humiliation and voyeurism. The hotwife enjoys having power, sexual freedom and pleasure. There are many ways to enjoy a cuckolding dynamic without a bull.
Cuckolding without a bull is all about playing with his cuck mind
1. Tell him about the men you find hot. When you’re in public whisper in his ear, “that guys is so sexy”. Later, you can describe what about this man attracted you, his face, his body, his behavior. Cuckolds often love to hear about their girlfriends’ attraction to another man’s body. Don’t hold back, tell him exactly what made this guy hot.
2. Share your sexual fantasies with your cuckold. Open up about your fantasies about celebrities, your colleagues, fictional characters, or any other fantasies! What do you imagine the sex will be like? Fantasize about it out loud and make him listen.
3. Look at photos of attractive men in front of him. You can go further and masturbate to pictures or videos of the men you find hot while he watches. You can use fetlife, porn, photos of your ex, or just photos of your favorite celebrities. Fantasize about other men and orgasm while your cuck isn’t allowed close to your pussy.
4. Tell him the hot sexual experiences you’ve had in the past: especially the partners who were amazing in bed. Watch how his cock gets hard as you think back to your memories.
5. Use a dating app (like tinder or bumble) to flirt with other men. As you flirt with them, make your cuck massage your feet or worship your body. Put him in his place and remind him that his role is to serve, while other men’s role is to flirt with you.
Put your cuckold to work! You don’t need a bull to make your cuck please you.
6. Make your cuck find pictures or videos that match your sexual fantasies. Your cuckold will have to look at men who he knows you will be attracted to, and this will stir up some cuck feelings. For instance, I love men who have beards, gray hair and hairy chests. I’ve made my cuck send pictures of men who match my physical preferences.
7. Make him suck a dildo that’s bigger than his cock. Fantasize about it out loud – if this was a real man’s cock you would make your cuckold suck it for you. Cuckolding without a bull is all about playing with your cuck’s mind. You will be amazed to find that many cuckolds will suck a dildo like there is no tomorrow if you tell him to imagine it’s a hot man’s cock.
8. Before you go somewhere, get ready and sexy. Wear sexy clothes and/or put on lipstick in front of him and tell him it’s not for him. It’s in case there are any hot men around you.
9. Go to a salsa dancing class together! But not the usual way… Create some rules: you’re allowed to dance with any hot guy you want, and he has to watch. Salsa or bachata is great because it can be so erotic. Tell you cuck to bring you drinks when you want to take a break. He might get an erection watching you dance with other men!
Remind your cuckold of his place!
10. Make him kiss pictures of men who are sexually superior. Make him say out loud, that yet this man is hotter (or this penis is superior). It’s subjective, who is sexually superior and totally up to you to decide. Doing cuckolding the femdom way means your sexual desires come first. You are the judge of the sex hierarchy!
11. Give him rules to follow in order to have sex with you, rules that no sex partner has ever followed to get to have sex with you. Remind him that he is the only one who has to follow the rules to be allowed to have sex. For instance, make him get on his hands and knees and beg for sex. And as he does it, remind him that no other man had to work so hard to get access to your pussy, they way he has to.
12. Write humiliating words on his body to cuck him. Use a marker and label his cock “tiny cock” or “not for sex” or “100% cuck” before you go out to dinner. Then whisper in his ear to remind him that he’s probably the only man who has these words written on his body. If you want the message to last a few days, use a temporary tattoo pen.
13. Make him masturbate to pictures of men you think are fuckable. This is the ultimate mindfuck for a cuckold. He has to admit sexual defeat and masturbate to men who are higher on the sex hierarchy than he is. Give him instructions and tell him what to do.
Cuckolding without a bull can be thrilling
All of these ideas are ways to cuck him without having sex with a bull. If the cuckold in your life is into small penis humiliation or chastity you can combine those interests with cuckolding. Lock him up and remind him that fuckable men get freedom, but cuckolds need to have their cocks caged. It can be a lot of fun!
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