All women deserve to have great sex and erotic experiences! Unfortunately cuckolding has a bad reputation in the kink world because annoying cucks often ruin the fun. However I think cuckolding can be hot and enjoyable for women when you do it the Femdom way. This post is for women who want to do cuckolding their way with their pleasure at the center. If you’re a guy wondering if you’re a cuckold, I have a post to help you figure it out. If you already know you’re a cuck, please read this post, it will help you be a better cuckold.
What is cuckolding and why do so many men ruin it?
Cuckolding is a dynamic in which as the woman, you choose who you have a sexual experience with. This means, if your boyfriend isn’t fulfilling your sexual needs, you can have sex with someone who will. Your boyfriend / cuckold doesn’t control what kind of pleasure you get or how. I say “pleasure” because it doesn’t have to be sex. It can be kissing, massage, showering together or anything that turns you on. You are free to pursue hot experiences with whoever you want.
The reason a lot of dominant women are turned off by cuckolding is because needy cuckolds ruin the fun. They say, I want to watch you have sex, I want to see the bull’s big cock, I want to cum while he’s doing xyz to you, I want, I want, I want. This attitude completely ruins the cuckolding dynamic. What these cucks don’t realize, is that most women don’t want to be bossed around and directed through a sexual experience. Especially not dominant women. If you’re a cuck, remember it’s not about you, it’s about her. As a cuck you want to be a good boy who listens and obeys.
Cuck him and don’t let him top from the bottom!
Dommes, if you want to try cuckolding, don’t let him top from the bottom. Make it about you! If you already have a cuckold partner, remind him of his place. Cuckolding is about your sexual pleasure, not his. If he’s lucky, maybe you’ll tell him about your experiences, but the decision is yours. It’s not a cuckold’s place to sway your decisions or control the situations. A cuckold’s place is on his knees, while you go and have the sexual adventures you deserve.
Think about the kind of pleasures you want to experience and go for it. You don’t have to have sex with anyone just to make your cuck horny. What the cuck wants doesn’t matter. Cuckolding the Femdom way can be about so much more than a cuck getting horny watching his wife have sex. When you cuck him, you’re doing exactly what you want, the way you want to.
As a Domme, you decide if your cuckold contributes to the sex in any way. You decide if he gets to provide the condoms for a sexual experience or if he gets to see pictures of you naked in the bath with someone else. You decide if you want to give him tasks, like buying condoms for your lover or helping you prepare for dates. Just remember, when you cuck him, it’s all about your pleasure, not his!
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