My domination style is like a fingerprint, and once I touch the subs in my life, they are forever imprinted with that fingerprint. My domination style is not about using brute force to make someone worship me, or about disciplining a brat into obedience. For me, domination is about creating a mental addiction in your mind. I bewitch you, I lure you in. I am like a siren calling you to your demise. And you cannot help but follow and obey.
I dominate by bringing you into exposed and vulnerable states, where I reveal what’s in your mind. I might even reveal things you didn’t know were there. As you follow, you might find yourself in a new territory, doing extreme and unusual things. As your mind melts into a new form, you forget who you were before you met me. Maybe I’ll lead you down the path you are afraid to go down. The intensity of your vulnerability will excite me.
When I dominate you, I bring you to a state of total devotion, exposure, depravity. You forget your ego when you finally get what you need. You get so drunk off my commands, you forget to hide. All you know is that you want to submit. You want to obey. You need to obey, and you’re not afraid to show this to me.
For centuries artists have painted mythical women, sirens bewitching and luring men to their demise. These artists were painting what they saw in the world. Maybe they were so intoxicated, that they thought these dominant, bewitching women were magical beings. A powerful woman with a calm style of domination may seem like a mystical being. Being around her can really feel like magic to the submissive.
My domination style is to calmly look you in the eyes, hold you firmly in my hands, and bring you to your most depraved state of mind. I watch as you lose yourself to the thrill of humiliation, devotion, degradation, loss of self, loss of control, desperation (this list could be longer but that’s the short version.)
My domination style is to give a command with a single word, and I know my slave will immediately obeys. I don’t need to force someone into worshiping me. I don’t need to punish them if they don’t. All I need to do is really see someone, look right into them and address their secret desires. My domination style is to take your secret desires and feed them, grow them, exploit them until you beg for me to exploit them further.
My domination style is to create a private D/s world where I make the rules, and you forget that there ever were any other rules. There is no need to hide, no need to feel secretive or ashamed. Nothing is too extreme in my world. You feel most at home when you are at my feet, bowing to me. This is what domination looks like from my perspective.
Every Domme has her domination style, and it may include discipline, brat taming and yelling. Though I’m not into that, I support every Domme who expresses her power in her individual way. Porn and popular media can simplify the Femdom lifestyle to a catsuit and a whip. It’s important for dominant women to show their individual perspectives. The world needs to see more of the real Femdom lifestyle, beyond the catsuit in Hollywood movies. If you want to see the Femdom lifestyle from a Domme’s perspective, read more of my blog and subscribe below.