Humiliation is so much fun. Just because you’re long distance doesn’t mean you can’t enjoy it. There are lots of ways to do long distance humiliation. Once you get in the rhythm of it, you’ll see how the ideas just start to flow. If you’ve never played with humiliation before, I recommend you read my post on how to humiliate a submissive man.
Experiment with Long Distance Humiliation Tasks
- Make him send humiliating photos – Modern technology has given us a gift. A submissive man can send photos in himself in humiliating positions, pictures of cum in his beard, wearing a dog mask on all fours, him with his cock in cage and wearing a latex sissy dress, etc. Think of what he can photograph that would humiliate him, and make him do it.
- Use his genitals in fun ways – make him stir his coffee with his cock or use his cock as decoration. I have a post about how to use useless cocks. Give him a task that makes him feel like his cock is not meant for sex!
- He can perform shows over cam – webcams are a perfect tool for long distance humiliation. Watch him twisting his nipples, stripping off his clothes, sucking his own cock, acting like a puppy, begging to eat his own cum. You can make him pee his pants for you while you watch, or have him hump a pillow while he begs for an orgasm.
- Have him wear embarrassing things under his clothes – make him wear a chastity cage, a thong or embarrassing underwear under his clothes. Give him instructions to write humiliating things on his own body, like “cock sucker” on his chest, or “slave cock” above his penis. Make him send you photos of it!
- Give him public humiliation tasks- Make him go a sex store and ask the salesperson if there are toys designed for small penises. Or he can go to a regular store and ask if the condoms come in smaller sizes. Make him wet his pants in public and walk home in them. There are a lot of potential public humiliation tasks, for the most advanced humiliation subs to try. Make him tell you all the details of what he did on his humiliation adventure.
- Give him a protocol to follow – make him eat from a dog bowl every day or wear a slave mask for one hour while masturbating on his hands and knees. Make this a daily habit so he gets a good dose of humiliation every day. Either supervise over cam or make sure he sends photo evidence that he does it everyday!
- Tease and Denial – tell him to masturbate for you over cam. Get him close to cumming but deny him orgasm. Don’t let him cum! Mix in some small penis humiliation: “Is that as big as it gets? Even when it’s hard?” Laugh at him when he produces precum and make him rub it on his face.
- Give him humiliating homework – have him research average cock size of each country, and report back in which countries his cock is below average. Make him draw a picture of himself on his knees with his cock out. Tell him to send a voice recording as he moans and begs. If he’s a cuck, have him write a letter (or a practice letter) praising the bull for being a better sex partner.
Use Toys for Long Distance Humiliation
- You an control his sexual responses with a long distance butt plug! I recommend this vibrating butt plug by Lovense. When you download the app, you can pair it with his toy. Then you use your phone to control how strong the vibration is. The app is free and very easy to use, you just move your finger up and down on the screen. I can confirm that you can control his butt plug from the other side of the world. Lovense also has a pricier (but fancier) prostate massager which you can control with you phone. Once you turn on cam, make him do pushups with this butt plug inside. See how he squirms as he tries to contain his sexual excitement. You can make him read poetry and suddenly turn the vibration way up, to see how he squeals. Go ahead and turn him into your vibrating puppet!
Send Humiliation Messages Throughout the Day
- Send him humiliating messages – Keep him in his place. Even when long-distance you can remind him that he’s a cuck boy, a puppy, a slave, a tiny cock man, a sissy sub, whatever he is.
- If he’s a cuck, send him photos that make him feel cucked – like photos of you kissing other men or holding their cocks in your hand. Remind your cuck that while he is far away, you’re still having sexual adventures with your hot lovers.
- Send him reminders of the humiliating things he’ll do when you’re together – if you plan on meeting in the future, you can stir up the anticipation for humiliation. Remind him of how you plan on humiliating him when you’re together. Remind him that these long distance humiliation tasks are just practice for what’s coming.
- When he sends you photos, edit them on your phone. Write humiliating words over his photo and them back. If he sends you a picture of his body, you can write “small cock boy” on his photo and send it back. You can also draw funny things, like drawing a bikini onto his body, or drawing a penis going into his mouth. if you’re constantly using your phone anyway, use it for some long distance humiliation.
I have had a lot of long distance D/s dynamics! Can you tell? There’s so many ways to control and play with your submissive, even if they are on the other side of the world. If you liked this post and want to be notified every time I post on this Femdom blog, subscribe below: