I can give you a secret, something that most Dommes will appreciate from their submissives. It may seem obvious to you or it might be an eye opener. If you’re still learning how to be a submissive in a Femdom dynamic this advice is important for you. The secret to being good submissive everyday: look for a way to improve your Domme’s day. I like when my subs submit to me in some small way everyday. It can be something small and simple: kissing my feet, making me a coffee, sending me a picture or some submissive words. The secret to being a good submissive is to offer yourself to your Domme in some small way, every day!
Being a good submissive means asking:
- Is she stressed? Ask what you can do to lower her stress.
- Are you at an amusement park? Offer to stand in the long line so she doesn’t have to.
- Is it a hot day? Bring her a cool drink and fan her so she cools off.
- Is she having a good day? Ask her what you can do to make it even better.
- Time to eat dinner? Offer to cook her favorite food for her, or ask her what you can cook for her.
- Went on a long hike together? That’s great. Now you can offer to massage her feet after a long day of hiking.
- Did she say she’s tired? Ask if you can make her a coffee for her to boost her energy.
- Is she sick with a cold? Find something you can do to help her feel better or to recover faster. Bring her tissues, soup, cough medicine, etc.
These are some idea to get you thinking about how you can better serve your Domme. The secret to being a good submissive is to pay attention to what a Domme likes, so you can offer it to her. This way you can offer her things that you know she likes. A good submissive also knows how to ask, is there anything I can do for you? Offer yourself to her. Find ways to improve her day. No matter what you do together in the day, there is definitely a way you can make it better. Offer yourself to her. In an act of spiritual submission, offer your efforts to her divine power. That is a secret to being a good sub, everyday.
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