Humiliate him, you know you want to. See how it drives him deeper into a desperate, horny state. It’s fun to humiliate a man who likes to be humiliated. Remember, erotic humiliation is different from real life humiliation. It’s a kind of game that both people play and enjoy. It’s like a super-stimulus – it creates an intense feeling for the giver and the receiver. You’re pushing him to his mental limit, and he loves the loss of control as his ego gets attacked.
Before you start the fun of playing with his mind and emotions, remember erotic humiliation can cross the line into hurt feelings. Make sure the submissive man is open to it, and be ready to stop in case it results it real hurt feelings. You can have a safe word to stop the scenario, or simply agree that if it’s too much for him, he’ll say so.
Erotic humiliation shouldn’t lead to someone feeling bad. On the contrary, it should leave him with a feeling of being horny and electrified.
Humiliate him in different ways
Many submissive men enjoy small penis humiliation or cuckolding. Even if his penis isn’t small, you can make fun of it. No one is stopping you. I have a whole post on fun ways to use a small cock. Tell him that he does have a small penis and see how it feels. SPH and cuckolding are the most common forms of humiliation in the BDSM world, but there are more.
Try different things and see which of them pushes the humiliation button. Watch his reaction to the different things you do to him. What makes him become mindlessly horny and submissive? Whatever it is, that’s his button. The more you push it, the stronger of a stimulus it will become.
Humiliate him with this humiliation list:
Here is a quick list of ideas that came to my mind. You can use it as inspiration, and create your own list of ideas that sound fun.
- Laugh at his cock, use it like a toy, call it cute. Use his cock for entertainment instead of sex.
- Do a cock inspection. Take his cock and inspect it, evaluate it out loud. Tell him what you think about the size and shape, the foreskin. You can tell him it’s smaller than you remember (if he likes SPH).
- Make him suck his own cock. Train him to do it! Make him practice for you!
- Feed him his precum (or cum). Make him lick it from your fingers and thank you for it.
- If he is a cuckold, make him masturbate to pictures of other men’s cocks and make him admit out loud that his own cock is inferior.
- Tell him about the sex you’ve had with other men, and watch as his arousal level goes through the roof.
- Make him perform a striptease and when he’s naked, then afterwards make him get on all fours and pick the clothes up with his mouth.
- Put him into submissive poses: with his cock between his legs, with his but in the air, with his legs behind his head.
- Write humiliating words on his body – like “spank here” on his butt, “cum eater” on his chest, or “tiny cock” with an arrow at his cock. If you don’t want it to last too long, use something easily washed off like a washable marker or eyeliner. Or… if you want the secrete words on his body to last a few days, use this temporary tattoo pen!
- Make him act like a dog. He can bark, eat from a dog bowl, and if he has to pee – he can squeal to be let outside. Once he’s outside, make him pee with his leg in the air.
- Get him to suck on your favorite dildo. You can even get a special dildo, just for him. He’ll feel so special and humiliated to have a dildo dedicated just for his mouth. I like this dildo for cute subs. Watch him as he does it, and tell him he’s a good boy as he does it.
- Treat him like an object! Make him into human furniture and use him. He can be a table, a coat rack, a footrest. Put your feet up on him while you watch a movie. Maybe it seems silly – that’s fine, you can laugh at him.
- Make him eat food from the ground. Just give him a little plate of food or a dog bowl to eat from. Put nuts between your toes and make him eat the nuts.
Push his humiliation button
Once you see what humiliates him most, keep pushing on the button. Push on it more and more. If he feels humiliated by acting like a dog – push on this button. Remind him that dogs aren’t allowed on the furniture, remind him that he has to strip naked because dogs don’t wear clothes.
If he’s into small penis humiliation, inspect his cock. When it’s hard, ask him “is that it? Will it get any bigger than this?”. Put a bow on it and remind him that his cock is just decoration between his legs, it’s not made for sex.
Lean in to his humiliation button. Push it! Have fun watching him melt into a submissive puddle. The more you push his humiliation button, the more you’ll be “in the zone” and will think of unique, personal ways to humiliate him.
Fantasize out loud about how you would humiliate him
The most humiliating and extreme scenarios might be outside the realm of what’s possible, but that’s ok, because you can still enjoy the fantasy of it.
For instance: tell him how if he ever went to a nude beach, women would gather around to laugh at his cock because it would be the smallest cock on the beach.
If he gets a kick out of forced-bi scenarios, cuckolding, or sucking cock for any reason, you can fantasize about this. Tell him you would love to take him to a kink party on a leash, and take him from man to man. You would snap your fingers, and he would get on his knees and open his mouth, and accept whatever cock you chose for his mouth.
If this scenario is too extreme to do in real life, that’s ok. After all, you can milk this fantasy and enjoy it without making it a reality. Once you get started you’ll see that your mind can run wild. The more you humiliate your sub, the more new humiliation buttons your sub will develop. It’s a fun time for everyone!
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